YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW! If you live your life with doubt then you’re not living. I’m not saying that the grass is greener on the other side; it’s just a different shade. It may, or may not, be greener, but you will never know unless you check it out…not with one foot over the fence though, 111% check it out. You have to trust that voice in you to do what your heart wants, because if you continue to listen to those other little voices of lies that tell you that you ‘can’t’ or ‘shouldn’t’ do then you will always be living a life of ‘what if’ and that, my friend, will fill your life full of regret and wonder. Who are you to predict your future? Are you a fortune teller? Are your friends? Only you can CREATE your future because YOU are the creator; you are the author of your own book, you are the director of your own movie. Who are others to judge your life and your decisions? Only YOU know what’s right for your life.
God put specific people and situations in our lives to test us; to see how bad we really want it. The big picture is there, you’ve already imagined it, you’ve already seen it, and now it’s time to move forward and put it into fruition. You can do it! Stop dreaming, wake up and live your dreams! In reality, to be alive is like a lucid dream. If you’re afraid, then you are letting doubt and fear win and rule your life. Instead, turn that emotion into excitement, into a sweet spot, and feel good about it. You were excited when you first thought of your dream but then the lies started to seep in and fill your mind because of other people’s image and wants for you and it began to distort your perception of the truth. The truth within yourself. The white noise takes over and soon you feel the way others see you as; not good enough, not able. Pretty much the biggest lies and b.s. anyone could ever say about you. It’s not true. Look at the lives of the people that are lying to you. Are they doing what you want to be doing? Then how can they tell you how to get to your dreams if they don’t even see the same picture and image of yourself as you do?
Today my best friend’s mother past away and it reminds me, again, that life is way too short to feel bad at all and not go for what you want. You have ONE life, maybe a couple chances at things but that’s not even guaranteed. It’s too short not to make amends with people, to not speak up for your beliefs, to not align yourself with your higher purpose. What do you have to lose? I’ll tell you what you will lose. You will lose a chance that you probably will never, ever get back. Tomorrow is not guaranteed and unless you were able to get extra lives from the Super Mario game then you better think long and hard at who is on your team. Go for it!
If you see a better way, day or life, then quit being a ‘fraidy cat’, because you’re actually quitting before you even try. I hate the word ‘try’ but what’s worse are quitters. Quitters are the ones that stay in situations that they aren’t happy in; they quit being the best they can be so they allow themselves to stay in limbo because it’s safe and comfortable and that’s all they know and visualize for themselves and perhaps those around them act as the devil’s advocate just so they have company. Successful people didn’t make it because they listened to those that said they couldn’t do it, they didn’t make it by sitting back in fear. They went for it and so can you! So if no one else believes in you, I DO. But you have to do the work. You have to be smart about it. You have to take that chance! You have to believe in yourself. You have to keep pushing! Or… you can stay just where you are. It’s up to you. I have a set of inspirational and motivating cds that will change your life, if you would like to message me your email address I would be happy to share them with you for free. Step out of your comfort zone, believe in your Self and change your life. What is your story? <3 @rinachong